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Getting Boys To Leave You Alone
Question
How can I tell boys to leave me alone?
Answer
Whether you’re ten or sixteen years old it’s important to communicate clearly with boys. This means more than just saying, “Stop.” For a boy to get the message, you need to be specific about what you want him to stop doing. For example, you might say, “David, stop tapping me on the shoulder. I don’t like it.” Look at him when you say it. This lets him know you’re serious. If it continues, tell the boy again to stop and add, “If you don’t stop, I’ll have to tell an adult.” If he keeps bothering you, talk to an adult who can help.
Another idea is to spend time with other girls. Boys will probably tease you less when a group of girls is around. The saying “there is safety in numbers” is true. Remember this as you interact with boys. It will help now and in the future.